Tuesday, June 9, 2009
New Under the Sun
Monday, May 18, 2009
Making Peace

I don’t recall meeting my biological father until I was about twelve years old. My mom met my stepdad when I was four days old and he was the man who raised me as his daughter.
My two older sisters remember our parent’s marriage. I do not. They clearly resemble our bio-dad, but I do not. This never bothered me, until I moved out of the house. As a child, I learned bio-dad wasn’t well thought of in our home and that he had been known to mistreat people once or thrice. The message I got was that he never deserved to be in our lives.
No longer living at home, I made a decision to get to know my biological father better, to complete that missing part of my DNA. I knew we had Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and migraine headaches in common. It would take many years before I would find a more admirable connection with him.
As I started my relationship with him at 22 years old, he would tell me stories about the feral cats that began showing up in his back yard. At first it was one or two cats, then they began having babies. Hearing about his wild cats was pleasing to me, and in some way I felt closer to him because of it.
Many years later, a feral cat showed up in my backyard. His coat was matted and part of his ear was missing. I made friends with this cat and his health improved. He let me pet him and care for him. If you’ve ever nursed an animal back to health, you know that’s a special relationship.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Whole Hearted Spring
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Beckon Lovely
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
One Prayer
Breathe to me, sheep in the meadow. Sun and moon, I smile at you both and spread my arms in affection and lay myself down at full length for the earth to know I love it too and am never to be separated from it. In no way shall death part us.
--David Ignatow
from Earth Prayers from around the World edited by Elizabeth Roberts and Elias Amidon
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Snow & Beans in Carolina
I know a lot of folks living here aren't from around here - and y'all have a big time when the locals get all excited at the mention of a little snow. I don't mind. Everybody seems silly to somebody over something sometime. The truth for me is that I AM excited at the mention of a little snow. This morning while my coffee was perking I put a pound of pinto beans out to soak, humming a Hank Williams' song, one of my Aunt Pearl's favorites, and I can still hear her tuneless warbling - why can't I free your doubtful mind and melt your cold cold heart? A really good question, but this morning there were bigger fish to fry, or at least beans to soak.

I bought smoked pigs knuckles at the Harris Teeter Friday, wondering all the while if I'd completely lost my mind or just found a particular brand of sane. My daughter retched a little when she saw what was in the grocery bag, but she always was delicate when it comes to animal parts, and I was listening to a Higher Voice anyway - the one that whispers - snow. Snow. It. Might. Snow. Put a pot of beans on, 'cause it might snow.
I simmered and stirred all Saturday evening, adding onions and salt and whatever else Aunt Pearl's voice in my ear said. I surprised myself and her with a near perfect round of cornbread baked in her iron skillet from ingredients I had in my cabinet.
I've got a pot of pinto beans cooked. Calling for snow. Why can't I free your doubtful mind, and melt your cold cold heart?
--Caroline Boatright
Photos: snow dog by Christmas w/a K on Flickr
tulips by Alan1954 on Flickr